time to kick the Single status thoughts.

say bye bye to those lonesome nights. say bye bye to rendezvous. say bye bye to selfish thoughts.

many things would change once u switch status from single to attached. my belief, to maintain a quarrel-free yet perfect relationship is to keep quiet on certain stuffs and voice out only when needed. in a relationship u really have to suck thumb at times. things won't always be in the way we expect.
Often, Man sees
thing they want it to be. then to realize life is never a bed of roses. nothing is perfect and not everything can go according to how you want it to be. countless of factors that has to be brought into consideration. tsk tsk, sad fact.

Man includes myself. many at times i wish and try to make things go the way i want it to be but then i slowly realize.. its not that easy because between this process i'd lose something or perhaps gain something.
since we are the topic singles and attached lets quote an example then,

at times, we wanna protect our partner. so we go all out to protect them, never did we know that the impression created actually sparkles the discussion of being protective and controlling. hmm then we feel helpless. damn helpless. i can't say its wrong or right. i can only say a balance control and protectism would help in a relationship.

IF we can't balance, my best suggestion is to shut up. grind your teeth and just let your partner do what they want. rather than to ignite those stupid ideas of being too protective over them.
in a nutshell, just tell your partner... enlighten them. let them realize that if they consider for the latter feelings, the latter wouldn't have to be protective.

everything happens for a reason. let the experienced ones protect you, they've been through. you won't see it now but you'll as times go. don't worry everyone has a chance to be the experienced one.

God's fair.